Can I Get Rid of Bdsm Addiction Online as a Teen?
Question by Lets go Kyrah: can i get rid of bdsm addiction online as a teen?
as a teen, I sometimes masturbate by cybers*x. I never use cam. What turns me on most is BDSM cybering – while I’m h*rny it’s amazing and I can’t get enough. Afterwards, I’m horrified at what I have just said online and read online. It seems messed up, and calling someone “master” and being insulted with degrading names seems amazing at the time, but later, I want to cry. It seems disgusting and wrong to me now. I’m single, so I don’t get any real action. I never give away personal information, I lie about location when asked.
Also, I remember being younger, ages 11-13, dreaming about a girl making me call her “master” and me being her slave. In reality I hated this girl, but in the dream, I liked being at her beck and call. It would actually make me cry, but I liked that. Nothing s*x**l happened in those dreams and I never felt anything “down there”.
I want to fall in love and be in a nurturing relationship. I want to have a marriage that isnt kinky, but is “vanilla”. I want to get rid of this addiction – online when I’m h*rny its great but I know I would hate this in real life.
please give me suggestion to get rid of it. dont suggest psychologist – i dont want to ask my parents to send me to one when I seem normal, happy, and smart.
note: i only do this when I have a long weekend from school and I don’t get to be with cute guys who aren’t innocent. I have never been even to first base.
please help!
Best answer:
Answer by AznGuy
I think you want to be “normal” but you also enjoy the the thrill of being on the edge and being rebellious. You just need to balance the two. Try doing more things that you think is more normal and just cyber once in a while. It may also be because you haven’t had sex that you are into BDSM. It’s possible that after being in a relationship and having sex, that you no longer need the mental rush of being a slave. But, really, there’s nothing wrong with BDSM. Everybody likes different things, and you happen to like being dominated. If you can find a guy that is also into it and not go so far as to abuse you, then everything will be fine. But, if that’s not the kind of thing you think you want to do, then just find things to keep you busy so you won’t have time to go cyber BDSM.
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