How Do I Control My Rage Towards Smokers and Drug Users (Espicially Underage)?

Question by the masda: How do I control my rage towards smokers and drug users (espicially underage)?
This is how I feel about them…

“I hope you die from lung cancer, and when you die, I will come to your grave and take a crap on it”

That explains a lot

I also want to punch those kind of people in the face.

I also want to go to a local hospital, sit to someone who needs a new organ or has cancer from alcohol/drug abuse and sit in front of him reading a magazine called ” Things to do before you die”

yeah so whats wrong with me

Best answer:

Answer by CJ
I can somewhat understand your thoughts. I certainly hope they are only thoughts and never actions. That said, it is tough to understand how smokers justify their actions and how smoking affects not only themselves and others, especially family. My advice would be to understand that these smokers are people and people are imperfect. People make mistakes, and smoking is an example of a mistake that too many people make. The only thing a person can do is encourage them to stop before it is too late.

Answer by loveless_sselevol
I think you’re just so convinced that you are right and they are wrong that you can’t take a few steps back and see the whole picture. I used to hate people who smoked and drank too… but then I got older, tried it a few times and realized it was nothing to be upset about. I don’t like it much… it’s more fun being sober, but I can understand people who does drink and smoke. I used to be furious with them, just like you, because I though I was so much better than they were, but really I was just different. Just accept them for who they are and let them do their own thing and make their own mistakes, just as you probably expect people to let you live your life the way you want.