What Should I Do About My Boyfriend’s Drug Problem?

Question by Haylie: What should I do about my boyfriend’s drug problem?
I’m 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together on and off for 3 1/2 years. He used to have major drug problems (heroin, pills, x, shrooms, alcohol, etc.) and that was usually the cause of our break-ups. He went to rehab, relapsed, and sobered up the second time alone.We lived in Ohio, and a year ago, he moved to Florida to live with his mom. He got a job, a car, and began to change so much. We worked things out, and I moved down to Florida a month ago.

For 3 weeks, everything was perfect. I couldn’t have been happier. Then, I started finding pills & needles. The pills are xanax (bars) and blues/roxys.. whatever. Of course, he always had excuses for why they were around. But I know when he’s lying and when he’s not sober.

Anyway, the past week has been hell. I don’t know what to do. He refuses to get any help, because he says he isn’t on anything. He gets mad when his mom and I try to talk about it. What do I do?!

Please, do not say, “leave him.” I am a smart girl, and I know I sound dumb to not leave. But I love him so much and I want what’s best for him. Also, I’m scared that if I leave, he’ll abuse drugs even worse, or kill himself.. honestly.

I’ve written him notes about how I can’t do this again, I’ve cried and begged him to stop. I don’t know what else to do. If you have ANY suggestions OTHER than leaving, pleaseeee help….
Thank you everyone.. I may be leaving in a week to go back to Ohio..

Best answer:

Answer by John
Ditch him. That’s way too much drama for a 19 year old. He sounds like a real loser. You are too young to live with all the crap.
Just imagine the world of crap you’ll be in if you were to get pregnant. Three ruined lives.

Answer by Khamirul Bin Mataree
Call a police fast